
Resources
curated recommendations for becoming wholly ourselves
This page offers a collection of resources to support your journey toward spiritual formation and sexual wholeness.
Here, you’ll find Wholly Ourselves original resources alongside recommended books, articles, and voices that have shaped and supported this work.
These tools are here to help you find clarity and show up more fully—body, mind, and spirit.
Original Wholly Ourselves Resources
7-episode podcast that explores spiritual formation and LGBTQ emotional health. Dive into six transformative spiritual movements, designed to help LGBT+ and same-sex-attracted Christians integrate their faith and sexuality. Drawing on six years of research and case studies from Josh Proctor’s groundbreaking doctoral research, the podcast offers practical wisdom and real-life insights.
Josh's Other Projects & Resources
Below are some of the resources I have participated in creating before beginning Wholly Ourselves. Many are curated specifically from a Side B perspective, but my hope is that these resources may offer insight even more broadly to all those navigating sexuality and Christian faith with honesty and hope.

Join me and the whole cohost team as we have honest, and sometimes chaotic, conversations with friends exploring the joys, beauty, and challenges of living the traditional sexual ethic as LGBT+/same sex attracted Christians. Every season we explore a theme that we are eager to learn about from community and thriving, to resilience and reclaiming.
This paper outlines the four general perspectives that Christians hold regarding sexuality, often referred to as the Sides. It offers shared language for understanding the theological diversity that exists within the Church. Whether you're exploring where you land or simply want to better understand others, this resource can be a helpful starting point for reflection and conversation.
Recommended Resources from Others
These are books, podcasts, and tools that have influenced my work or that I recommend regularly.
Whether you’re looking to explore trauma-informed spirituality, embodied theology, queer Christian integration, or contemplative practice, these voices may be good companions for the road.